By Erin Oglesby P’31, PEC Co-Chair
The Parent Faculty Association (PFA) marked the start of the year with a Chapel-themed Monthly Gathering, where this year’s theme, ‘Auamo Kuleana, was introduced by Chaplains Uluave (K – 5) and Hayashi (Middle School), with a special video message from Chaplain Scott (Academy). This is the third in a series of annual themes that align with Punahou School’s mission statement. ‘Auamo Kuleana calls us to embrace our shared responsibilities and honor the unique contributions of each individual.
As a parent of a 7th grader who has attended numerous chapel services since kindergarten, this year’s theme resonated deeply with me. It provided valuable insight into Punahou’s broader mission, as well as my personal role and responsibilities in this season of my life – to my family and my community. At the start of the chapel service, Lauren Kanoelani Chang ʻ01 Williams introduced the hula, Na Lima Hana, a dance that celebrates the everyday contributions of the working class. This powerful reminder that even the simplest tasks contribute to a larger, more impactful purpose put our daily efforts into perspective.
Chaplain Scott shared the story of Samuel hearing a calling from God, a reminder that each of us is called to serve, whether through acts of support, love, parenting, or community engagement. Chaplain Uluave reiterated this message in her Reflection quoting Frederick Buechner, “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” We all experience moments in our lives when we feel a calling. As the school year progresses and we become caught up in upcoming events – from Flaming “P” and ILH games to first tests, college applications, and Carnival – we are reminded of the importance of pausing to reflect on our own callings, where we find that deep gladness. Whether large or small, our contributions, much like those of our children, are integral to the greater Punahou community, and we have countless opportunities to participate and make a difference. Chaplain Hayashi concluded with a Benediction, sharing a personal story about growing up in his family’s restaurant in Chinatown. He reflected on how cooking and spending time together shaped him, and how he now passes those values on to his own children. Though his daughter was initially reluctant, she eventually embraced learning to cook with him. He reminded us that embracing responsibilities, discovering our purpose, and sharing it with our children may seem like small acts, but they are deeply connected to our calling as parents.
The chapel service concluded with words from our PFA President, Melody Fukushima P’28, ’33, who exemplifies someone who has truly answered the call to serve. Her leadership and commitment to the Punahou community are a testament to the theme of ‘Auamo Kuleana. As we heard from the Carnival Chairs and Parent Enrichment Committee volunteers, it became clear that there are many ways for individuals to contribute their unique passions, skills, and strengths to the school. The message is simple: every contribution is valuable, and everyone is welcome to get involved.
This year, I am inspired to embrace the theme of ‘Auamo Kuleana and find meaningful ways to contribute to our community. I look forward to listening to my own calling and supporting Punahou in small but impactful ways.
Please save the date for the next PFA Monthly Gathering, Friday, October 3 at 11:30 a.m.